tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078483744873792132.post8211910591643033749..comments2023-10-23T15:51:59.571-04:00Comments on Diapers and Dragons: In the Waiting LineTeacher Mommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11215145025563985398noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078483744873792132.post-72236483757897491392009-11-09T15:03:56.689-05:002009-11-09T15:03:56.689-05:00Hang in there. I have absolutely no idea what you ...Hang in there. I have absolutely no idea what you are going through, but it sounds like you are getting through it the best you can under the circumstances. I am thinking about you and sending happy thoughts your way.A. Nonny Mousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09509054535644094092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078483744873792132.post-65144883774000226142009-11-07T09:01:27.568-05:002009-11-07T09:01:27.568-05:00Hi there, found your blog through some very rounda...Hi there, found your blog through some very roundabout way. This post struck a chord with me. After three months of separation, my husband just told me that he wants a divorce. I'm struggling with so many aspects, not the least of which is that I love him and don't want to divorce, but also how to be an effective parent when I'm alone and lonely and heartbroken. Reading your posts is helping me see that it will happen. So thanks.donnahttp://www.maybeimjustabitch.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078483744873792132.post-30305148460262118832009-11-06T02:14:33.690-05:002009-11-06T02:14:33.690-05:00Oh, TeacherMommy, I am so sorry you are in the thr...Oh, TeacherMommy, I am so sorry you are in the throes of total turmoil like this. But like your other commenters, I want to tell you that you and he-who-was are amazing in how you are handling this.GingerBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09976594257345428901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078483744873792132.post-55388263195777095442009-11-06T00:06:45.494-05:002009-11-06T00:06:45.494-05:00(((TeacherMommy)))
For the record, if there were ...(((TeacherMommy)))<br /><br />For the record, if there were a "right way" for divorce, you would be doing <i>everything</i> that way.<br /><br />I hadn't heard the term "Toggle day" before. I'm hoping that I start having those again soon.TJListhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05354311352443025166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078483744873792132.post-46301417926240456642009-11-05T17:26:01.053-05:002009-11-05T17:26:01.053-05:00Sorry, hon, for how hard it is, and that it has co...Sorry, hon, for how hard it is, and that it has come to this. GIST: the kidlets being so polite and cooperative. Your mentee providing sustenance at just the right time. Text messaging. Blogging. The support that comes. Way over here, I'm feeling the part of you watching from the corner. The ironies you noticed today are uncanny. <br /> As you know, we[re praying for you. As Arby said, live your life prayerfully. Hang on to the Hands that don't let go!momnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078483744873792132.post-54816809682971412092009-11-05T13:49:18.238-05:002009-11-05T13:49:18.238-05:00You are a step ahead of me. I am currently separat...You are a step ahead of me. I am currently separated, but have not committed to the filing part yet. Not really sure what I am waiting for since it is inevitable. Your boys are beautiful and will pull you through. Hang in there!As Cape Cod Turnshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16047430228350114744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078483744873792132.post-6716558422907055802009-11-05T12:20:38.713-05:002009-11-05T12:20:38.713-05:00Your blog is so honest and amazing. I know how har...Your blog is so honest and amazing. I know how hard you tried to not get to this point, and I'm sad for you that it has arrived. But you are also facing forwards and being so postive. You are amazing. xDorset Dispatcheshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10457466586411004146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078483744873792132.post-53418445327218286792009-11-05T11:22:16.381-05:002009-11-05T11:22:16.381-05:00I love you and he-who-was and the kidletts.I love you and he-who-was and the kidletts.Dadnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078483744873792132.post-17848283430700481602009-11-05T10:57:50.797-05:002009-11-05T10:57:50.797-05:00You are reminding me of a whole bunch of feelings ...You are reminding me of a whole bunch of feelings that I experienced 15 years ago, albeit sans children. October 20th would have been my 19th anniversary for my first marriage. Life is far better now than it was then. You are experiencing a lot of new and uncomfortable and painful emotions, and you will for a long time. You have to go through it. You cannot avoid it. It will suck. And it will get better. There’s no magic answer for this situation. To the best of your ability, live your life prayerfully and honestly, one day at a time. Live it one minute at a time, if that is all that you can handle. The suckiest part is that it takes a lot of time to heal, but heal you will.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05358631883472544059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4078483744873792132.post-35567048347323486122009-11-05T09:09:41.045-05:002009-11-05T09:09:41.045-05:00Your writing is honest and amazing and i can't...Your writing is honest and amazing and i can't thank you enough for taking time out of your own bad day to come over and cheer ME up for a much less important thing. wow. you are amazing. Sometimes Old McDonalds is just what the doctor ordered. You are blessed to have two amazing boys who have such a fantastic mom. Hang in there. The blogosphere is here for you and we love you!<br />(((((hhhuuugggsss)))))marymachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01456115911638132597noreply@blogger.com